3b. Identify Effective Discussion Topics

The topics you discuss during mentoring sessions should be centered around the specific goals you and your mentee agreed upon for the relationship. The illustrative questions below provide a good basis on which to begin your discussions:

Professional Development

  • What successes have you had in your job recently?
  • Why were they successful?
  • When you need to persuade or motivate others, what is your strategy?
  • Which relationships are particularly difficult for you at work?
  • Where and how could you improve the effectiveness of your team?
  • What tough decisions have you had to make in your job recently?
  • What opportunities or challenges do you feel they created for you?
  • What decisions are easiest for you to make and which ones are the most difficult? Why?
  • How do you solicit feedback regarding your performance?

Career Guidance

  • What prompted you to take your current job?
  • What skills would you like to develop?
  • What do you see as the next logical step for your career?
  • What doubts do you have around being able to reach the next step?
  • What is your long-term vision for your career?

Personal Development

  • What are your current strengths and development areas? What steps are you taking to improve there?
  • What individuals, books, experiences, or events have most impacted who you are?
  • About what are you passionate (work-related or not)?